i often think of what a wonderfully fullfilled life 2 survivors could live.Also, being a survivor i realize more than ever that i don't want to live my life alone. Hello, I definitely encourage you to discuss dating on this board with others.
Now, I am feeling lonely, sad and very upset, the way he plays me was horrible.
Now, I decided to loook for somebody in my conditions that wants to date.
at the risk of sounding trivial i would like to see a dating site/thread for single cancer survivors.
Having cancer has changed every aspect of my life and i am finding it difficult to find someone who looks at life in the same way i (we) do.
Cancer Match is a powerful cancer survivor networking and dating site. Tell friends and family you're ready to meet potential dating partners. Talk with other cancer survivors who have started dating. “Breast cancer survivors offer a unique understanding of the value of life—and love.”) The women ... For survivors of cancer and other diseases, sex can be a difficult and painful thing .
Meet people diagnosed with cancer from all over the world. But that doesn't lessen the human need for love and romance.
I have dated non-survivors too,,, they just don't click,,, I think the view of life isn't the same,,, and I am faulty for not telling him in advance about what I have experienced,,, but don't know how to tell a potential partner about everything,,, without scaring the person away,,, and don't know when the best timing is,,, it's such a long story,,, and I just don't know how to tell others,,, :/ and about somethings, they just don't have the same insight to,,, : S and what could seem sooo much less of a problem after going through what we go through can be such a big deal to others,,, including my ex,,, and I just found it really disappointing when they just don't get stuff,,, or are just sooo over-wrapped about something that isn't that devastating,,, but gets so "depressed over it" and in words, some people can seem so capable of understanding,,, but if they have never been in the situation themselves or had a close relative go through something like cancer,,, they just don't know how to react,,, and I find it difficult to stand in the same ground because the perspective is so different,,, well, sometimes,,, I haven't had the luck to date anyone who is a survivor,,, :/ I wish I could though,,, but I don't know why,,, I meet really great people,,, but they are all the same sex lol XD not that that is bad, but it's just difficult to date someone who doesn't quite get it,,, maybe I'll get lucky and meet someone soon :) and I don't know,,, how do you resolve something like that,,, is the only solution to date a survivor?
or are there people out there that can be compassionate and understanding of what goes on?
Take care, Dana CSN Dana Oftentimes, when you volunteer with your local branch of the American Cancer Society (etc), you'll find folks who "get it," -- either cancer survivors or family / friends of folks who've had cancer.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating