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And evolutionarily speaking, women might accurately feel they are running out of time; with every decade past men’s 20s, guys who can snag ever-younger partners do, leaving straight women of their own cohort short of available mates: “….[My now-ex] said I had no right to date because we were ‘still married’, ha!

We were only ‘still married’ because he was refusing the divorce!

But still, it’s misleading: “I knew that when I said “I’m divorced” he thought that it was official…

But since none of these factors are in place, you might send along this note: “You’re cute; call me when you’re single.” Cheers, Duana *This article is based in science, much of which has been covered previously in other Love Science articles linked at the bottom of this entry.

But there aren’t many studies addressing why the not-quite-divorced are dating.

I was in my late 30’s and unprepared to spend the rest of my life waiting for him to let go as I watched the good men snapped up by other, younger, women….” As you’ve found, Dan, some of the not-quite-divorced lie to get a little contact.

They might fear rejection; they may not have thought through the consequences.

I felt really crappy although all my friends told me it was no big deal. We ended things about 6 weeks later because I found that I simply wasn’t ready to date someone exclusively. My divorce should be finalized within the next upcoming months. There are just so many variables that can make it complicated.

I learned that I definitely needed time in between relationships. some do not ask me out again (I’m assuming that my I’m not-quite-divorced yet status may have something to do with it… Last week I went on a date with this guy and when I told him that I was in the process of getting divorced he said “so you’re married!? I would definitely recommend anyone considering it take the decision very seriously.Some may be offended, but you needn’t attract the whole world, just one (literally) single match. He could be lying or unclear about his intentions to divorce; you could be wife-bait; the divorce could drag on for years. Starting a relationship during a divorce, when you both have kids and you don’t know the risks/circumstances, is just (warning, technical term coming) cra-cra.Think about how Stressful your own divorce was; now imagine yourself in *someone else’s*, where you have even less control and high odds you won’t be Priority #1: “….having to “be there” for anyone else only made my problems seem worse, and made it a lot harder for me to function just day to day.Do I need to see finalized legal papers before I can meet someone for coffee? So imagine you’re lonely in a marriage—and then you find out that because of a vast array of legal, financial, parenting, and partner issues, the divorce itself is going to take years: “[There’s a] mandatory 2-year separation period in our state….Dan Dear Duana, I’m a single mom, and I’ve been set up with another single parent who is ‘not quite divorced’. Should I suggest he contact me when the divorce is final? He got an apartment, and still came ‘home’ after work for months to help put our two young children to bed as neither of us emotionally was ready to tell the kids.“ Unsurprisingly, some folks are unwilling to extend their emotional exile.

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