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In fact, children of divorce often feel rivalry with their parents’ love interest – especially during the first few years after the divorce.

Children need time to adjust to their parents' split, and it can take at least two years for them to get over anger, sadness, and other emotions.

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As Tom spoke, he was eager to share: “Kendra’s just so different from Shana, and I can really be myself with her. I figure my daughter will like her because she’s a lot of fun to be around.” During our second discussion, I asked Tom to make a list of any disadvantages of introducing Kendra to Abby too soon.

When Tom and I spoke a week later, he was feeling distraught and disappointed that a meeting between Kendra and Abby was a disaster.

It’s important to assure your kids that your partner will not replace their other parent or change your relationship with them.

Have realistic expectations about your children’s acceptance of your new partner.

If you have shared custody, it should be easy to spend an overnight with them when your children are with their other parent.

Having your new partner spend the night should only be an option once you are fairly sure that your relationship is permanent.

If you’ve been dating someone for a while (at least 3-4 months) and feel relatively confident that you are heading toward commitment, talk to your children and explain that you are dating someone who you care about and that you’d like to introduce to them. Ask your kids where they’d like to go and don’t invite your partner’s children to join you on the first few visits.

Be sure not to plan an overnight with your new love interest in your home right away.

They had been dating for a little over two months and she was head over heels in love with him.

He had just asked her to move in with him and decided to call me for coaching because his teenage daughter, Abby, complained bitterly when he told her.

If you approach dating thoughtfully after your divorce and consider your children’s needs, it will pay off in the long run.

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