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I've not really 'dated' as such (the couple or three formal 'dates' I've been on in my life were pretty tragic! I've been separated for almost 18 months, haven't dated in over 15 years and the thought of putting my 40 something self out there terrifies me. I think confidence counts for more than your age or size. He is smart, funny, 6'4" and looks like a 1940s film star.

That way I've met people, struck up friendships, got together. I did online dating and be honest if you want to try this.

Guys would be surprised because I looked like my photo, they would say that ladies would put up photos ten years younger and fifteen kilos lighter. A site like eharmony could be good, less brutal than the free sites.

Personality, brains and conversational skills count for much more on a date than a slim figure in my experience.

I am honest about my size and my photos are current.

I don't mind if you tend to date fat girls, or really even if you get some specific pleasure from being with a fat woman -- but I don't need that to be the first thing you tell me about yourself. " It's announced as if it's supposed to reassure me that they aren't going to take one look at me naked and run, I think? Or maybe it's meant to suggest some kink; like to let me know that he wants to feed me cakes and watch me weigh myself? If you care more about my weight than I do, we're going to have a problem.

What is it about fat girls that puts guys off dating them? Also i always see people write in threads how they would make a runner if they met a girl via online dating and she turned out to be fat. If so I don't understand why, surely it just means they have extra curves? I had a friend of mine try and she is heavier and had success.The guys loved her but she wasn't into them in the end. In my group of friends, there is 5 of us trying online dating. I am overweight and I am having more success with meeting men and getting second dates than the slim girls.There are specialist dating sites for heavier women because that is some men's preferences.I am not sure how comfortable you would be dating some who wants to because you are fat though.I'm not sure when I'll be up to it, but I want know that whenever I want to start dating that it might be possible.

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